Sunday, May 19, 2013

Thieves Of Book Row


Thieves Of Book Row:
New York’s Most Notorious Rare Book Ring and the Man
Who Stopped It

By Travis McDade

Published by Oxford University Press, 2013

Crime is not the first thing one would necessarily associate with libraries, but libraries have been faced with the problem of thefts of their rare books ever since their inception and continue to do so.

 The scarce poetical works of a youthful Edgar Alan Poe open the story and we are introduced to Al Aaraaf - the first collection of poems published under Poe's own name, and although uneven in quality, it was highly prized for being incredibly rare with a print run of only 250 copies. 

One was enshrined in New York's Public Library, until a young man using an alias asked to see it......it eventually ended up on Book Row, the home of a huge number of second-hand and antiquarian booksellers, some dealing only in highly specialised fields, others being general booksellers.  Some happily dealt in books whose legitimate ownership was rather muddy to say the least. There was a thriving trade in "sophisticating" books by a variety of methods; one involved taking apart several volumes and incorporating the most attractive and rarest parts of each to produce a volume which would be attractive to collectors.

Thieves Of Book Row details the activities of one particular and notorious ring of thieves who targeted the libraries - both public and university - of the East Coast and  sold the books onto other booksellers and collectors. This is a truly fascinating account of how books were stolen, often to order for specific clients all over the world. All traces of previous homes had t be removed, whether ink stamps, embossed stamps , perforations - all could be removed or disguised given enough time and money. But who were these thieves, and how were they eventually stopped? What could be done to improve the security of rare book collections?

 An investigator named G. William Bergquist took up the challenge to halt the activities of this gang,which was led by Harry Gold and his associates, and this is a gripping reconstruction of the battle of wits between the two sides.


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Friday, May 17, 2013

Mrs DoomHamster Has Landed!

After an interesting flight to Denver via the northernmost reaches of the world, Mrs DoomHamster is now safely in Colorado, reunited with her beloved husband  and ready to start her exciting new life there :-)

Quite whether America is ready for the Celtic DoomHamster is another matter altogether, of course............


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Wednesday, May 15, 2013

Mrs DoomHamster Departs

Well, our beloved DoomHamster is leaving Wales today and travelling up to England, where she will fly out to Denver tomorrow to permanently rejoin her husband at long last.  The last two days have been filled with visits to family and friends to say goodbyes.

As you can imagine, her two youngest sisters have been very tearful last night and this morning as they said goodbye to her, for they will not see her again for another year.  I am travelling with her  - by coach - to the airport to keep her company while my husband holds the fort here with the young ones; we have a hotel room booked for tonight and she checks in for her flight mid-morning tomorrow.

I will be on the lunchtime coach trip back home to Wales while she crosses The Pond for a joyful reunion with Mr DoomHamster and the start of a new life and a new adventure together.

Prayers for safe travel for us both would be much appreciated...



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Saturday, May 11, 2013

NetGalley 2013 Challenge




My challenge for 2013 is to read and review at least 30 books from NetGalley over the next eight months.....




Wish me luck :-)



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The Lost Carving

The Lost Carving:

A Journey To the Heart of Making

By David Esterly

Published in the USA by Penguin/Viking, December 2012


My craft talents lie in knitting, embroidery and writing - I cannot paint or draw anything recognisable and have always been amazed and fascinated by those whose talents do lie in this direction. David Esterly is a master carver who writes with deep understanding and insight into the whole complex and highly creative process of carving.

 I can just about identify the sharp end of a chisel from the handle, but found this book to be utterly enchanting - a poetic paean -  from beginning to end.

The great  17th century Grinling Gibbons created much of the spectacular carvings of England's historic Hampton Court Palace and when a catastrophic fire  destroys some of his work in March 1986, Esterly is tasked with the daunting job of restoring what is salvageable and then recreating one masterpiece from an ancient glass-plate photograph.

It was not just a technical challenge but also an emotional challenge. To have to carve something as magnificent as the original, when it has historically been held that the incredible secrets of Gibbons' unique techniques had almost certainly died with him, is a prospect which would have terrified most people, but for Esterly, it became a rite of passage as well as a challenge; he set out to keep a detailed journal of his knowledge of the master-carver and the whole experience of working at Hampton Court.

Not only did he complete the work he was tasked to do and succeed triumphantly,  he created a piece of history and a book of his own. Gibbons' life and times are brought to exuberant life, intertwined with Esterly's own deep appreciation of the original painstaking craftsmanship and the forces which shaped and developed his own life and skills as well as Gibbons'.

Part memoir, part detective story and in part a technical treatise on carving, this is a tastefully illustrated, alluring and thoroughly captivating book which left me feeling sadly bereft when  I reached the last page.


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Crossing The Pond

Now that all family members have been officially told, I can formally announce that our precious eldest daughter, Mrs DoomHamster, has got her emigration Visa and will be flying to the US to rejoin her beloved husband next week.

It is going to be a bitter-sweet  last few days for us as a family; we are all thoroughly delighted for her and Mr DoomHamster to be reunited after a long separation, but we shall miss her as much as we have missed our dear son-in-law these last twenty one months..........

And so The Big Adventure begins...... prayers for travelling mercies for her would be greatly appreciated!


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The Pieces Of Summer

 The Pieces Of Summer

(The Discovery Part 4 of 6)

By Wanda E Brunstetter

Published by Barbour Books, May 1st, 2013


Things are becoming increasingly more difficult for poor Merry as we rejoin her in Part 4 of "The Discovery". As her pregnancy progresses, the lovely young "widow" slowly becomes resigned to the tragic loss of her  beloved husband and starts to make preparations for the birth of her baby and plans on how best to financially support herself.

Jonah continues to pay frequent visits, and her mother-in-law  Sadie is very unhappy, feeling it is much too soon for Merry to consider courting again. Sadie wastes no time in telling poor Jonah this, even though her husband Elam is much more open to the possibility that Merry might marry again.

Back in Philadelphia, Nurse Susan is delighted to find that her John Doe patient, whom she has nicknamed Eddie,  has now woken from his coma but he remains amnesic though physically he continues to make a slow but steady recovery back to full health. He has no recall of his name, his background nor of his family, and relies a great deal on the frequent visits from Susan, whose sister Anne is assigned as his Physical Therapist. Worried about what will happen to Eddie when he is well enough to leave the hospital, and not willing to see him left penniless, jobless and homeless, the sisters decide to discuss the situation with their grandparents, who offer to let Eddie stay with them in return for helping out with odd jobs.

Our cliff-hanger for this installment is the rapidly progressing labour and imminent birth of Meredith's baby when she and Laurie are in their buggy on the way home from church, service, a long way from any help or even a phone to summon help...............

This is a thoroughly enjoyable read, and fingers crossed that Merry's boppli will make a safe if rather unorthodox arrival into the world!





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Friday, May 10, 2013

In Plain View

 In Plain View

By Olivia Newport

Published by Barbour Books, June 2013


This is Book 2 in the "Valley of Choice" series and follows the story of Annie Friesen, whose initial encounter with the Amish I reviewed here.

Annie is now immersing herself more fully into an Amish lifestyle as her relationship with Rufus Beiler continues to deepen. Her family remain bemused by her choice to abandon her successful business and modern lifestyle in favour of Plain living, and as she continues to become more Amish, Rufus' sister Ruth becomes more entrenched and settled in the Englisch world.

The arrival in the community of old friends from Rufus' childhood marks a strained period for Annie, as the unmarried daughters of this family are all accomplished young Amish women and looking to find spouses in the district; hospitality dictates that Rufus has to be polite and helpful to them even though his heart is well and truly given to Annie. Life becomes even more complex when his brother Joel becomes moody, secretive and involved with a group of other young Amish and Englisch boys who get themselves into trouble and danger, in turn threatening a valuable community project which would have united the Amish and Englisch folk of the area.

 Interspersed with all the modern day drama is the continuing story of the separation of the two strands of the Beyeler family during the American War of Independence and I was fascinated by the history of this period and how difficult it was for the Amish of the time who tried to remain neutral and pacifist in a time when  not belonging to one side or the other made you a traitor and a threat to both.

A highly enjoyable read, and one in which Annie's faith becomes deeper and believable when her position in the community comes under threat.












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Monday, May 06, 2013

Hymns Of Home

Hymns Of Home

By Bill Bunn

Published by Biting Duck Press, March 2013


I'd never heard of Bill Bunn, who is wellknown in the US for his columns and essays published in magazines and papers, but the fact that he has three children and likes to write about the joys, trials and tribulations of parenting and daily living was enough for me to want to read his book.

I am so very glad that I did; this short book of  twenty-nine absolutely delightful essays  was a pleasure to read from start to finish. I read "Away From The Manger" out loud to my younger daughters, who were reduced to hysterical giggles at the journeys the plastic Baby Jesus made round Bill's house. I was reduced to hysterical giggles when I read "Santa Giveth, But Anti Claus Taketh Away " as the problem of disposing of the goods which find their way into the house is a perennial problem in our home too........

Despite the constant wry humour, there is much wisdom and humanity in these essays, touching on our responsibilities to our children, taking joy in the small things of nature as well as the  absurdities of our daily lives. Short enough to pick up and read in a spare few minutes but robust enough to spend a day mulling over the depths contained therein, this was a great book and I am delighted to have made Mr Bunn's acquaintance and hope he writes another book very soon.


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Surviving The Angel Of Death





Surviving The Angel Of Death:

The Story of a Mengele Twin in Auschwitz


By Eva Mozes Kor and Lisa Rojany Buccieri

Published by Tanglewood, October 2009




This was quite a painful book to read due to its very subject matter. Beautifully written, it captivates the reader immediately.

Born to a prosperous Jewish family, the only Jewish family in Portz, Romania, the idyllic life of  Eva, her identical twin sister Miriam, their older sisters Edit and Aliz and their parents was abruptly shattered when their province was handed over to Hungarian control. Anti-semitism became widespread and violent, with propaganda films being shown in schools to incite violence against the Jews. The situation deteriorated rapidly when Hungary entered the War, allied to Germany, and the family's attempt to escape in 1943 failed and they had to return home. Life was difficult and they were soon moved to a tent ghetto, where torture and cruelty was rife.

 In May, 1944, they arrived at Auschwitz, where Eva and Miriam were immediately selected because they were twins and sent to Dr Mengele's medical compound at Birkenau. They never saw the rest of their family again. Subjected to dreadful living conditions, near starvation and brutality from nurses and guards as well as the medical experiments performed upon them, their lives were in jeopardy from day to day.

One experiment performed on Eva made her so ill she was separated from Miriam and taken to a separate hut, where she was deprived of food, water and medicine. Her indomitable spirit and help from a tiny number of humane people helped her to recover from almost certain death, and it took all her courage and ingenuity to stay alive.

Miriam and Eva were eventually liberated by the Soviet troops when they were eleven, and they returned to Romania. Life for these youngsters was hard, living under communist rule in Romania, and eventually they managed to emigrate to Israel and later to America, which marked the start of  a totally new life which held promise and happiness as well as a desire to make sure that the dreadful events at Auschwitz-Birkenau and the other camps would never be forgotten.

This is a truly remarkable book about triumph over adversity and not allowing the horrors of what they endured to poison and destroy the rest of their lives. Very well worth reading!








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Fix-It And Forget-It Holiday Sweets And Desserts

Fix-It And Forget-It

Holiday Sweets And Desserts

By Phyllis Pellman Good

Published by Good Books, October 2012


I always seem to struggle with getting a suitable dessert which can be made in good time and not worried about when I am in the midst of cooking lots of other dishes, so I was really pleased to see that there is a title devoted just to desserts in the useful Fix-It And Forget-It series.

Ideal for busy cooks, we now have a cookbook of slow-cooker/crockpot desserts which can be prepared well in advance and left to their own devices in the slowcooker while other dishes are given attention.  With few exceptions, these dishes use ingredients easily available to the UK and American cook alike, though I will need to investigate and experiment to see if the prepared box cake mixes in the UK used in some recipes will produce the same volume as their American counterparts. I am sure my family will deal heroically with having to endure multiple repeats of desserts in this endeavour!

So what, I hear you exclaim, are the desserts? Well, there are fifty recipes (many of which are contained in the Christmas book of this series) and they range from Christmas Apple Date pudding and Apple Cranberry Compote to Lemon Poppyseed Upside-Down Cake and Harvey Wallbanger Cake, with some great chocolate based puds including Chocolate Fondue, Fudgy Peanut Butter Cake, White Chocolate Bread Pudding and Chocolate Covered Pretzels. Many of the recipes would transplant easily to festival cooking for all seasons, not just Christmas, and I am glad that this book has been titled for Holidays in general.

None of the dishes are complex, and the majority are very forgiving of being kept warm in the slowcooker for an extra hour without diminishing their taste or texture. The only problem I now have is that I really need to have more than two slowcookers to make the most of the recipes in this great series!









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The Joy of Pascha


Christ is Risen!
He is Risen indeed!

Wishing my Orthodox family and friends a joyous and blessed Bright Week, filled with the radiant joy of Pascha!



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Thursday, May 02, 2013

Hands On Healing Remedies


Hands-On Healing Remedies

150 Recipes For Herbal Balms, Salves, Oils, Liniments & Other Topical Therapies

By Stephanie L. Tourles

Published by Storey, November 2012


Herbal medicine is an absolutely huge field of study and  its very complexity may put many people off the idea of learning about how to use herbs.

Stephanie Tourles has produced an extremely useful book which seeks to enable the reader to learn about a relatively small number of  herbs and essential oils and be able to use them confidently and safely as topical remedies applied to the skin. Her three decades of experience of using herbs and formulating her own remedies has been generously shared with her readers, along with the knowledge passed down to her from her grandfather and her great-grandmother, for whom reliance on herbal medicine was a natural way of life.

She explains how the skin is structured and able to effectively absorb the medicinal components of herbal remedies and why locally grown (preferably home-grown)  and harvested native herbs are generally to be preferred to those from other parts of the world. Even the kitchen can be a valuable source of herbal remedies, and with just  basic ingredients, a huge range of remedies can be created which will help to heal many ailments, from warts to stretchmarks, eczema to gout,  body odour to colds and flu, and much, much more.

Each "recipe" is described clearly, utilising easily available equipment and including information about how long it will take to prepare, how much  it will yield, how long it can be safely kept for and very specific dosing instructions. I particularly liked the extensive section of remedies which can be used for babies and children, covering everything from cradle cap to colic massage oil, head lice treatment (and prevention!) to nappy/diaper rash. The problems of modern day living are are also covered and problems such as stress, exhaustion, headaches, insomnia and enhancing memory/concentration are discussed and appropriate  helpful remedies suggested.

This is a truly fascinating book and I defy any reader *not * to be intrigued, engaged and then seriously consider giving the  remedies a trial. I've bought a supply of beeswax and am looking forward to trying out some of these remedies!



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The Backyard Sheep

The Backyard Sheep

An Introductory Guide to Keeping Productive Pet Sheep

By Sue Weaver

Published by Storey, 15th May 2013


Living in a fairly rural part of South Wales, I am used to seeing sheep. When I walk the dog, we see sheep in fields on a daily basis, sometimes with lambs, sometimes newly shorn, and sometimes the fields are empty and the sheep have been moved to fresh pastures.

 I like seeing them, and always stop to admire the local flocks, but I know very little about them, other than that orphaned lambs can be bottle-fed and become very tame and that sheep fleece is turned into wool of many different weights and textures. This title piqued my curiosity; I simply couldn't imagine keeping sheep as garden pets, and just had to find out more...

I loved every single page. Each page I read spurred me on to read more; this book is chockablock crammed full of wonderful and utterly absorbing sheep lore. From their incredible history of domestication from man's earliest days, right through to the traditional way of counting sheep, Part One takes us on a whistlestop tour, teaching about how sheep think (they are actually really quite intelligent), react and behave, identifying the different breeds, and then having convinced the reader they really do need to have pet sheep, choosing a breed and where and how to buy your very first sheep. Differing breeds  produce very different types of wool, come in many different sizes and resistance to heat, parasites and there are specific breeds for dairy production as well as meat production.

Part Two covers the daily routine of looking after, feeding and caring for your sheep in sickness and in health, providing safe fencing and appropriate housing shelter for your new pets. They may also need safeguarding from predators in certain parts of the country, and dogs, donkeys and llamas can be used for this purpose.Once you are well and truly in love with your sheep, it is inevitable that you will want to raise another generation of sheep from scratch, and this is amply covered by Part Three, entitled - unsurprisingly - "Making More Sheep"! From hiring a ram, feeding your pregnant ewe and then helping her have a safe delivery to the basics of lamb care are described here, including how to help at a difficult birth.

Making use of sheep products is the theme for Part Four, covering how to milk your sheep and sell or use the milk products, how to get top-quality fleeces from your sheep and how to train and tame your sheep. Two recipes for  soft cheeses are included, which look absolutely delicious.

On a sadder note, Appendix three covers Emergency Euthanasia, a difficult and unpleasant topic. Readers should note that this book is mainly geared to an American market and that euthanising a seriously ill or injured pet sheep in the UK should be left to a registered veterinary surgeon and not undertaken oneself.








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Sewing School 2

 Sewing School 2

Lessons in Machine Sewing

By Amie Petronis Plumley & Andrea Lisle

Published by Storey, 15th May 2013


Longtime readers will know of my avowed antipathy to all things sewing, with the exception of my beloved cross-stitching projects.

With one daughter using sewing machines in school, I decided it was about time to think about digging up the ancient sewing machine in the garage and actually learning how to do something creative with it, rather than just dusting it periodically. I looked at worthy tomes in the local library which put me off, as they were all aimed at people who actually do already know their way around a sewing machine - which I most definitely do not!

This book proved to be absolutely ideal for me. A step-by-step pictorial guide, full of colour photographs, it is the next best thing to having a sewing expert sitting with you and showing you every step of the way.  From the basics of choosing and using a sewing machine, understanding what all the parts are called and what they all do, techniques of sewing and choosing the best stitches right through  to picking the perfect fabrics for your chosen projects - this book has it all.  Written in a simple,direct, clear style without in any way talking down to the reader, it even shows you what to do when things might go wrong.

There are eleven chapters of lessons, gaining in complexity, and then twenty sewing projects to tackle, again in order of complexity. These are very much geared to the interests of children, though many would appeal to adults too - making a quilt, a secret message  pillow, a wall-pocket for bedroom storage, a backpack, bunting, an art case, cuddly toys, a patchwork scarf and a water bottle holder, amongst many others.

A simply super book for encouraging youngsters to tackle machine sewing, and it may even persuade me to overcome my fear and get sewing too!

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Sunday, April 28, 2013

Orthodox Holy Week



To all my Orthodox family and friends, for whom our Holy Week 2013 begins today, my prayers for a blessed Holy Week to you all!

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Thursday, April 25, 2013

Twerp


Twerp

By Mark Goldblatt

To be published by Random House (Children) on May 28th, 2013

                                                    
Twerp starts quite slowly, in the form of a written task being completed by a sixth-grader named Julian Twerski.
Julian got into serious trouble at school and after being suspended for his unnamed misdeed, he was offered a deal by Mr Selkirk, one of his teachers. In return for writing a journal, especially about the incident which got him suspended, he could get out of the dreaded class assignment of  writing a whole report about Shakespeare.

If there is one person on the whole planet whom Julian loathes and despises, it is Shakespeare, and he is delighted to have found a way of avoiding the task. We gradually learn  more and more about Julian, his family, friends - especially his best friend Lonnie -  his attendance at Hebrew shul in preparation for his Bar Mitzvah, what he thinks of school teachers, Shakespeare, his quite remarkable talent for running and his burgeoning love interest with Jillian.

Inexorably, we grow to care about him, to like him, to see why he thinks the way he does and slowly we learn the truth about  the event which got him suspended from school and needing to write the journal in the first place, and we see Julian growing up before our eyes, realizing the enormity of what he did to Danley and how he manages to make amends.

Clever, touching, sad and satisfyingly resolved at the end, this a book which will resonate with youngsters and adults alike.




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Friday, April 19, 2013

The Hope Of Spring


The Hope of Spring

(The Discovery, Part 3 of 6)

By Wanda E. Brunstetter

Published by Barbour Books, April 1st, 2013


After the initial traumas of the first two parts of the story, this installment settles down to be a much gentler, contemplative interlude in which we get to know many of the characters rather better.

Meredith  is resigned to having to take things easy due to pregnancy complications and accept the loving - though rather over-protective help of her parents, who have their own financial anxieties.  The newly-returned  Jonah Miller is keen to buy Luke's horse which will aid her financial problems but causes her heartache at the thought of selling her dear husband Luke's beloved horse, and Jonah seems on the brink of falling in love with Meredith.

Luke, unbeknownst to Meredith is not dead but seriously ill in hospital, his true identity unknown to the staff or to himself.  Nurse Susan Bailey (who nicknames him Eddie when she looks after him at the hospital) is instrumental in his recovery after he was brutally assaulted, his identity stolen and then left for dead.

A  quieter, slower pace is noticeable in this part of the story, though we have our usual  cliff-hanging episode right at the end to keep us on tenterhooks and eager to find out what happens in next month's installment!




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Thursday, April 18, 2013

One Year Lived

 One Year Lived

By Adam Shepard

Published by Scratch Beginnings Press, April 2013

Adam Shepard's first book, Scratch Beginnings, detailed his journey to achieving the American Dream having graduated with $25 in his pocket, and was a runaway bestseller, becoming a recommended freshman text at  80 colleges and universities in the US.

Adam contacted me via a serendipitous connection of links, sent me a chapter excerpt of his new book and asked would I be interested in reading and reviewing the book for "The Garden Window".


The chapter from his new book, One Year Lived, which  he sent me via email, was about his experiences in bullfighting; normally this would be enough to send me fleeing for the hills as I don't like reading about animals being hurt in any circumstances, but Adam is a sensitive, thoughtful young man who writes passionately and respectfully about the topic and to my surprise I really enjoyed the excerpt so much I was keen to read the rest of the book and see what else Adam had done in his truly remarkable year's travelling odyssey around the world.   


He bungee-jumped off high bridges, helped dig a well so locals could have access to clean, safe drinking water in Nicaragua, helped street children in Honduras, visited Auschwitz concentration camp, hugged a koala, rode an elephant in Thailand and fought a bull, amongst many, many other experiences. “If you can lend a hand to someone, educate yourself about the world, and sandwich that around extraordinary moments that get your blood pumping, that’s a pretty full year,” he notes.

I was amazed to discover that only 35% of Americans have passports; the overwhelming majority - some 71% - of UK citizens have passports and young folk here who have left school often have a "gap year" to travel before they embark on their university career in the the UK.

 This is not the case in America, and Adam saved for two years to get enough money together (he spent $19,420.68, by the way) so he could  travel the world, visiting  17 countries over 4 continents, determined to live life to the full and trying to make a difference to some of the people he met.  In British terms I have not travelled much as I have only visited six countries, all of them in Europe and I really, really  enjoyed reading about Adam's travels to places I have not visited but have only dreamed of : Australia, New Zealand, Nicaragua, the Philippines, Slovakia, Thailand, Antigua in Guatemala, Honduras and more.

This book is an attempt to encourage young Americans to look at the  whole world, not just at America and Adam believes so passionately in promoting his message to travel as much as possible, to learn, to experience life as much as possible, to step outside of our normal, safe, predictable comfort zone, that he has generously given me the opportunity to offer my readers the chance to have a free authorized copy of his ebook if they comment on my blog, share a link to this review on their own blogs/Facebook pages/Twitter feeds or want to write their own reviews.

Just let me know what you have done, giving me your email address and I can send you a copy directly or  I can give you the link and login details so you download your own copy from his site, though this latter option will only run till Weds next week.

The book has its own website which has many photos of his travels and is well worth a visit!
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Wednesday, April 17, 2013

French Twist


French Twist

An American Mom's Experiment in Parisian Parenting

By Catherine Crawford

Published by Ballantine Books, March 2013


I laughed till I cried when I read this book.
 From the first pages, where she discusses the stereotypical (and seemingly quite accurate) picture of many concerned American parents pandering to their children's every whim, even to the point of packing four different snacks for a child to choose from when being taken home from school , to the seeming  indifference of French friends who are parents, who advise that if there is no blood, one should ignore the constant demands for attention from children who do not actually need immediate parental input, this book depicts, discusses and dissects the different approaches to parenting exhibited by the two nations.

It's a truly fascinating comparison. The French treat their children with respect and much love, but they are expected to behave well both  in public and at home, to be in turn respectful to all adults, to eat what is put in front of them and to allow their parents some time, space and respite from being constantly at their beck and call. 

When Catherine's almost three year old drew in crayon on their apartment wall, she phoned her french friend for advice. Should she talk to her child about the reasons why she felt compelled to decorate the wall ? 

Non. She should be given a sponge, a stool and told to scrub. 

But the crayon won't scrub off....

Pas de probleme, after a few minutes, she will realise that and it will deter her from doing it again......

And indeed it did. The cultural differences mean that the French are utterly perturbed by the concept of the "terrible two" phase, as it is unheard of among their children, and such behaviour would not be tolerated or pandered to. Conversely, French children are fully included in all aspects of French life and are expected to attend important family functions such as weddings, parties and suchlike with their parents.  It is common to see small children at restaurants, enjoying the food and the ambience as much as their parents, without being given different, "children's food".

I  don't necessarily agree with everything in the book (whether relating to American or French-style parenting, but I found much of value and use in it. Definitely a keeper! 

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Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles: Sins Of The Fathers


Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles (Vol 4): Sins Of The Fathers

Written by Kevin Eastman and Tom Waltz

Illustrated by Andy Kuhn

Published by Diamond Book Distributors, February 2013
The TMN Turtles have been a fixture in our house ever since my eldest daughters were tiny, so it was fun to be able to read and review this installment of a graphic novel series about them via NetGalley.

Our pizza-loving turtle heroes - Donatello, Raphael, Michaelangelo and Leonardo, their Sensei, Master Splinter and  Shredder, their arch-enemy,  probably need no introduction to anyone who had children in the 1980s and 1990s, and their popularity has endured ever since through TV series, film, comics and graphic novels.

This is the fourth book of this particular story, and although I had not read the preceding volumes, it was not difficult to catch up with the plotline. There is plenty of action and lots of suspense, just as I expected, and our heroes win the day but not without some major moral dilemmas along the way. When their friend Casey turns up, badly hurt by his abusive father, Raphael goes on the warpath, determined to teach the father a well-earned lesson by giving him a taste of the medicine he had meted out to poor Casey, but Master Splinter follows him to intervene and teaches Raphael to channel his anger into more positive action than simply thumping Casey's unpleasant father.

 I enjoyed seeing Karai, a Ninja villainess and remain amazed at how well it is possible to portray action moves in a graphic novel format. I thought the artwork was excellent and well-matched to the story.  There are bad guys galore, aliens, a mysterious laboratory and some rather worrying loose ends to be continued in the next book. I can't wait!

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Tuesday, April 16, 2013

My Morning


It's been rather a strange morning. Having dispatched the offspring safely to school, I walked up to town to run some errands. Most were speedily and easily completed but my normally profitable perusal of the books in the town's six charity shops was fruitless.

Several reduced items were on offer in the supermarket, so I snaffled those and was making my way to the checkouts when I saw a young woman, talking loudly on her top of the range mobile phone while pushing a very small boy in a stroller.  He quietly said something to her, and was met with a tirade of abuse : "Will you f**king shut up? If you don't stop f**king dropping things on the floor, I wouldn't have to f**king pick things up all the time for you! You are doing my f**king head in!" in not just an annoyed tone but an absolutely venomous tone.
 My heart ached for this poor little boy. Goodness knows, I have shouted at my kids in the past, but never, ever like that. If he hears language like that constantly and is told repeatedly he is a "damn nuisance", what a sad childhood he must have :-(

I then went to check if items I expected to be delivered to a store today had arrived. I was told the delivery had not yet arrived and I explained that I just thought I would check when  was passing, as I didn't want to walk all the way home and then find an email waiting for me saying the items were ready to be picked up.  The clerk smiled, and while I was still there browsing , the wretched delivery was actually received and logged in by the clerk.

 In the foolish expectation that some rudimentary notion of customer service might just prompt one of the several staff on duty to actually unpack the order, I hung around looking conspicuous, but the clerk I originally spoke to just stood at the counter talking vacuous nonsense to a friend. I gave up after approx 20 mins, walked home and when I opened up my computer, behold there was an email saying the items had arrived and were waiting for me to pick them up.

Sigh. I simply cannot face another one hour round walk today, so it will have to wait for another day.
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Sunday, April 14, 2013

Catching Up

It's been a busy two weeks chez nous due to the youngest two girls being home  from school on Easter holidays, hence my internet  silence.......

 We've managed to cram in two shopping trips to The Big City (one trip with me per girl, while Dad stayed home with the other), numerous walks with Prince Vasyl, lots and lots of cooking, a brilliant day with our friend K., lots of reading and just chilling out :-)

The young ones are back in school tomorrow, I shall be back in Latin class and The Hubster and I will be back to the task of redecorating Mum's house ready to be put up for sale. We do have other Great News to share in due course, but until all family members have been told in person, it would not be appropriate  to divulge it here yet.

News of major national and  international import  has been the recent death of The Iron Lady, Margaret Thatcher, after a long period of ill-health. Her funeral will be held in St Paul's Cathedral in London on Wednesday of this week.

God grant her rest, light and peace in His kingdom, and may her memory be eternal.




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Saving The School



Saving the School

The True Story of a Principal,
a Teacher, a Coach, a Bunch of Kids,
and a Year in the Crosshairs
of Education Reform

By Michael Brick

The Penguin Press, New York, 2012


The American and British school systems are quite different and I was particularly glad to be allowed to review this book to gain a better insight into the American public school setup.

Just as in Britain, there are areas where the economic and social demographics have changed substantially over the years and some schools  have been left with only the poorest children attending, whose families have been unable to afford to move away or send their children to schools in more affluent neighbourhoods.

This is the story of Anabel Garza, a dedicated maverick teacher/administrator who was determined to save Reagan High, a failing high school in Austin, Texas, which had plummeting student numbers, even lower attendance rates and a student/teacher self-esteem ratio to match. The authorities seemed far more inclined to simply close the school for its low academic standards and bus the kids to other schools than to actually identify the problems and act upon them, and Garza was given the challenge of raising standards. Standardised testing - seen as the be-all and end-all by the education authority - was doing more to destroy neighbourhoods than anyone could have guessed.

She was determined to change things for the better in the short deadline she was allotted, to the extent of driving to students' homes to get them out of bed and into school in the mornings, encouraging them to take care of themselves, dress and groom themselves and believe in themselves as essential prerequisites to actually getting them to learn. Disaffected and demotivated staff were fired and a team spirit fostered among the remaining staff that they could, should and would improve the school and give the students real hope for their futures.

 It was a difficult and often thankless task, with little apparent real support from the powers that be, but Garza was determined to enlist the support of the local community and the youngsters themselves. It was a long, hard task, but the staff were determined to give their students every possible chance at succeeding in the next round of standardised testing, teaching them how to study, how to learn, how to behave in properly in class - all things which should have been addressed many years before in their school careers, and it does make the reader wonder what on earth many of the original staff who had been fired had actually been doing at the school for so many years for standards to have slipped so badly.

The ultimate success story gives huge insight into the lives and backgrounds of the staff and students at this school as well as identifying the problems inherent in the public school system.  I found it an interesting read indeed.





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Thursday, April 04, 2013

The Cassoulet Saved Our Marriage

The Cassoulet Saved Our Marriage


True Tales of Food, Family, and How We Learn to Eat

Edited by Caroline M. Grant, Lisa Catherine Harper

Published by Shambhala Publications, March 2013



This book is exactly what it says on the cover, a collection of poignant, amusing and captivating anecdotes about family foods, family meals, family recipes and everything that goes into the experience of learning to eat, enjoy or loathe family mealtimes.


Based on the popular blog Learning To Eat, this book is a collection of essays written by American authors from varying backgrounds, all of whom are united in their fascination with food, and each essay ends with a recipe. From the frustrations of trying to source fresh seafood, cooking for workmen,  revisiting Southern soul food, running a food blog right through to finding out that your family is not as devoutly kosher as you might have believed, this is a treat to read.

Pregnancy diets, childhood nutrition and obsessions with certain types of food,  growing food, preserving food, eating too much, too little or the wrong sorts of food - all have a mention at least and some have whole essays. The Cassoulet of the title gets a whole, wonderful and well-deserved essay, and is definitely my favourite piece of the whole book.

Sad families, happy families, hungry families, dysfunctional families  - all eat, and all have stories to tell. Some families cook freestyle, others have collections of much-loved cookbooks, some love to cook, others hate it. The final part of the book, entitled Learning To Eat, is particularly illuminating - and reassuring-  if you have a child who is a picky eater or just doesn't really enjoy eating food.  

To sum up? Well worth a read.
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